Be kind to everyone you meet

I am in the process of seeking a new primary care physician.

For my new patient appointment, I typed out (a two page list) of all the issues I deal with and any medications I take for them.  The list was longer than I realized! The PA said, “At least you have a good outlook about all this.”  My response?  “What are ya gonna do?”  I’m not looking for your sympathy.  I’m hoping that you will have a new respect for those who deal with a chronic illness.

I just did a quick search to find some definitive information on how many different types of chronic illnesses there are and the information varies.  It seems some are “avoidable” and/or “curable” while others are a lifetime illness.  Of course, many are invisible chronic illnesses like depression, anxiety, PTSD, auto-immune diseases, etc.

Let me suggest that, for this blog, a chronic illness is one that requires daily medications, or management techniques, and persists for a lifetime.  I do not consider my health issues to be difficult to handle, but I find it frustrating and disheartening at times.  As the author of “Pete the Cat” writes… “Does Pete cry?  Goodness no.  He just keeps on singing….”

Taking all the meds becomes routine after a while. 

They can make someone feel better, which is good, but they can also make you feel worse (side effects).  We’ve all seen the commercials that talk about the horrible side effects of some medications and think, “Oh yeah, I want to take THAT.” (Sarcasm) For some people the possibility of side effects is worth the chance to feel better.  It’s a rollercoaster ride that some people don’t have a choice but to step on. Others can choose no medication, but instead management techniques. Most use a combination of both. All have good days and bad does, like everyone else.

So, the next time you chat with someone you know who is dealing with a chronic illness, keep this blog in the back of your mind.  No, they may not be having a great day, but… cut them a little slack.  They may be having a wonderful day.  Be thankful and appreciate that person even more, as they fight for the joy in their lives.

Remember to be kind to those you meet, for you know not their struggles.